Saturday, March 20, 2010

Envy.

This will be short.  I envy the following:


1) Persons who are not afraid to fly on airplanes.  I have probably taken nearly 100 trips on airplanes, and I'm grateful for the opportunities I've had to seen different parts of the US and world.  But, I'm scared every time.  I never get over it.  I can't relax.


2) Which leads me to my second point:  I'm envious of persons who can sleep on an airplane, which believe is directly related to #1.  I flew across the Atlantic earlier today.  I left at approximately 9 p.m. ET and flew "all night" to land in London at approximately 9 a.m.  Sounds like the perfect time to sleep, right?  No, not me.  I heard every noise, felt every bump, was uncomfortable, etc.  All around me:  people sleeping like babies.  


Argh.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Fashion

I'm pretty much a "fashion don't."  Okay, maybe not a true blue "don't," but I'm not far from it.  I mean, I don't think Stacy & Clinton on What Not to Wear would toss out my entire closet; they may keep something along the lines of 5-10 pieces.  Okay, 5.  And none of the shoes.

I like to think of my style as, "functional" and "classic," that is if the definition of classic includes a few pieces from Target's most recent line.  I mean, I understand the value of a good pair of $150 jeans (which were just $100 a few years ago and are now inching much closer to $200).  I also understand the longevity of a cute jacket that I can wear at work and on the weekend.  And, I can even appreciate dropping a bit of cash on a bag that'll last a few years.  And, let's face it, we all want to look nice (at least I do).  And, I'm a firm believer that the right outfit can make all the difference.

That being said, I don't get the hype around fashion.  I understand that to fashion mavens it's "art," just like collecting paintings or appreciating a beautiful fabric pattern for your new sofa.  But, I just can't get into it.  Okay, let's be honest, I can't afford to get into it.  But, even if I could, it just seems useless to me.  Even before I had my daughter (who makes this completely impossible), I never did enjoy spending a day shopping...unless, that is, I was shopping at the Farmers' Market.  It makes me restless.  And, the idea of spending more than $15 on a t-shirt makes me crazy.

I'll admit it:  I think the obsession with fashion is vain and obnoxious.  There, I said it.  The idea of spending hours upon hours and your savings account on the latest and greatest (because, frankly, it makes you look and feel "good") is crazy to me.  So, there, shoot me.

Of course, what does it say about me that I still have enough of an interest to post this link:  http://www.hirshleifers.com/blog.  It's a blog for a store that was recently mentioned to be a favorite of a celebrity.  Would I ever buy anything there?  No.  Will I read the blog from time to time to ensure I'm wearing the modern day equivalent of "Mom jeans."  Yes.

Enjoy.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Just let go.

I'm envious of people who can "just let go," and allow life (or whatever forces are driving life) to lead them.  I'm a fairly self-aware person; I think I have a pretty good idea of my strengths, weaknesses, struggles!  And, one of my biggest struggles is just letting life happen.  I'm not sure what, if anything, is at the root of the struggle.  Is it genetic?  Environmental?  Both, of course. But, at an even closer glance:  What, or who, taught me that I need to have control over my circumstances?  That I need to have a plan for my future?  That I need to be in the driver's seat?  Yes, this characteristic has served me well - sometimes - but perhaps even more often has caused me undue heartache and stress.  I have moments when something or someone succeeds in altering my pattern.  So, I'll try once again to allow that to happen.

Monday, February 22, 2010

My Favorite Veggie Lasagna

Every time I make this lasagna, people ask me for the recipe, so I'm posting here.  I copied directly as it's written down, and then I added my own comments:

Marinara Sauce 
(I’ve made this from scratch per the recipe below, but I think it’s just as good with a jar of your favorite sauce.)
1 cup chopped onion
3 cloves garlic
½ cup peeled carrots
3 T olive oil
½ cup red wine
½ t dried oregano
1 t dried basil
16 blanched plum tomatoes, peeled and seeded (or 28 oz can peeled whole tomatoes)
½ cup chopped mushrooms
1 T honey or sugar
½ t salt
1 T Italian seasoning

Saute the onion, garlic and carrots in the olive oil over low heat for 3 minutes. Add the red wine, oregano and basil and cook for an additional t minutes or until the wine is reduced by half.  Add the tomatoes, mushrooms, honey or sugar, salt and Italian seasoning and continue to cook until the mushrooms become limp, about 15 minutes.

Eggplant (I use zucchini instead and prepare the same way; takes about 2 good sized zucchini)
1 medium eggplant, sliced lengthwise ½ inch thick
Salt to taste and pinch of cayenne pepper
2 T olive oil

Brush both sides of the eggplant (or zucchini) with olive oil, salt and pepper, and broil for three minutes, or until slightly browned.

Spinach (I use both ricotta and goat.  I use a 4-6 oz log of goat mixed with about 8 oz of part-skim ricotta.  So, more cheese than recipe calls for)
2 bunches (about 1 lb) washed spinach, stems removed (I just buy a bag, and I’ve also used frozen box)
5 oz goat or ricotta cheese
1 T olive oil
½ cup chopped onion
2 cloves garlic, chopped
½ t black pepper
2 T chopped fresh basil (I only bother to use fresh if I have it on hand.  Otherwise, I use dried)

Steam spinach for 1 minute.  Remove and cook and squeeze to remove excess water.  In a separate pan, sauté onions and garlic in olive oil until softened.  Combine with spinach, cheeses, pepper and basil.

Bechamel Sauce
2 T olive oil
2 cups warm milk
2 T unbleached white flour
¼ cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese (I buy already grated)
¼ cup thinly sliced scallions or green onions
1/8 t nutmeg, preferably freshly grated
½ t cayenne pepper
¾ t salt

Pour the olive oil into a medium saucepan over low heat.  Warm the milk (I use the microwave).  Gradually stir the flour into the warm oil, stirring constantly.  Let cook for about 1 minute to make a brownish roux.  Slowly add ¼ cup of the milk and whisk it to blend it in.  Pour in the remaining milk, continuing to whisk.  Allow the sauce to simmer about 2 minutes just to thicken slightly, then turn off the heat.  Mix in the cheese, spices, salt.  Cover until ready to use.

Remaining Ingredients
12 sheets oven-ready lasagna noodles (The recipe calls for oven-ready, so you don’t precook.  I prefer to use regular noodles, precooking until a firm al dente, and then allowing to cook the remainder in the oven)
1 cup purified water (don’t do this step if boiling the noodles ahead of time)
1 ½ cups mozzarella, shredded (I use a little more (2 cups))
10 Kalamata olives, pitted and halved (I don’t add these)

Directions:
Preheat oven to 375
Make all sauces and vegetables, and prepare noodles.  To assemble lasagna:
Cover the bottom of a deep baking dish with ½ of the marinara sauce.  Lay 4 sheets of lasagna on top.  Spoon the spinach filling over the noodles and spread it around until all of them are covered.  Pour the white sauce on top, covering all the noodles.  Lay 4 more sheets of hoodles on top of the white sauce.  Lay the eggplant slices lengthwise over the noodles.  Sprinkle half of the mozzarella cheese on top.  Pour ½ of the remaining marinara sauce over the cheese.  Lay another 4 sheets of noodles over the sauce.  If using oven-ready noodles, add the water now.  Pour the remaining marinara sauce on top of the noodles.  Sprinkle the top with the remaining mozzarella cheese and the olives.  Cover with foil and cook for 1 ½ hours in the oven.

Enjoy!

Friday, January 29, 2010

Peggy Duncan's Chili

My friend Jane shared her mom's chili recipe with me back when we were in college. I've collected several of my friends' mom's recipes over the years, and I find they're some of my favorite ones. I've made several modifications to this over the years, but it remains my favorite basic chili recipe. I must admit that I last made this for Jane about a year ago, and she swore that my version was "even better" than her mother's-:)

I'm going to type exactly as I copied from Jane, and then add my commentary in parentheses:

Chili

2 lbs ground beef (I rarely use beef anymore, because I don't eat much beef. When I did, though, I liked ground sirloin the best. Tonight, I used ground turkey breast. Jane used to sometimes use soy crumbles, but beef was her favorite)
4 ribs celery
1 green pepper
2 onions
1 close garlic, crushed (I tend to use more)
1 T olive oil (I use a good bit more olive oil if I use turkey breast...say 3-4 T total)
2-4 T chili powder (I love spicy food, so I use at least 4 T, closer even to 5 or 6)
2T flour
1t ground coriander
1t dried oregano
1t ground cumin (honestly, I think this makes it so good)
1 21 oz can diced or chopped tomatoes (I tend to buy petite diced, and I prefer salt-free so I can control the salt)
1 15 oz can tomato sauce (same comment re: salt-free)
1 c water (I like my chili a bit soupier than some do, so I tend to use 2-3 cups, sometimes even 4. And, I also often use chicken broth instead of water...I do that with a lot of things)
2 T sugar
2t salt
2 cans beans (I mix this up, but usually one can pinto and one can kidney), drained and rinsed

Brown the meat (I do this on high) and drain; set aside. Saute on medium heat the onion, pepper and celery in olive oil (5-10 min); add garlic and cook a few more minutes. Mix dry ingredients (spice mix) and add to veggies. Stir for 3-4 minutes over heat. Add back in the meat, as well as all the ingredients except the beans. Bring to a simmer and cook 1 hr. Add beans and cook another 30 minutes.

I generally serve with some cheddar cheese and sour cream...but everyone has their own favorite way to eat chili. Enjoy!

Jane would get such a kick out of spreading this around.



P.S.  I also generally add a pinch of red pepper flakes and some hot sauce...the spicier, the better!  yum.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

New Year "Fortunes"

Wow! The last time I blogged was early October. Since that time, I've probably thought about blogging dozens of times, but something always kept me away (sometimes something practical; sometimes just didn't have the energy to translate my thoughts into written words).

The New Year seems as good a time as any to get back to it!

On New Year's Day, B and I ordered Chinese food for dinner. The reason: We just returned from nearly a week at the beach, and we didn't have any groceries in the house. My "secret" reason: I love Chinese food, but most of the dishes couldn't be worse for your health, and it was my "last supper" before beginning a healthier diet. We both agreed that it was quite appropriate, as we could open our fortune cookies and read some telling advice/fortune for the coming year. I'm not suggesting that I'd bet the farm that these little slips of goodness are offering actual truth, but it sure seemed like someone wrote them just for us. And, I'm just superstitious enough that I always eat the entire fortune cookie (which I don't really even like), because I believe the fortune won't mean anything unless I do.

Brian's fortune: "In union, there is strength." Brian opened this one. I love this, and it's a great reminder for us. We celebrated our fifth wedding anniversary on December 28th, and our union is stronger than ever. As any of you married persons knows, it's easy to get sidetracked in a marriage, and roughly 50 percent of marriages aren't able to make it. But, if there's one thing I feel good about, it's that B and I have learned how to work as a team...most of the time-:)

My fortune: "You will get a great deal on a major purchase." Sweet! Of course, I immediately joked (not really joking) to B that this fortune clearly suggested we were going to buy a new house in 2010. I waffle between being obsessed with trading up to something larger, and being disgusted with myself for being concerned with something material that I don't really need. It's a constant struggle for me to stay grounded when it comes to my needs versus my wants. There's a whole blog entry there -- or even dozens of entries -- but you get the idea. I do like a good deal!

My second fortune: "Moderate your appetite so that with a little you may be content." Okay, so I cheated and opened two cookies. The Chinese joint gave us three, and it was the New Year, and well, you know. Given my thoughts about the first cookie I opened, this fortune was particularly grounding. Brian, of course, gave me a knowing look (he, bless him, does not struggle with the "wants" that I do). Not only did these words prompt me to stop and take a deep breath, but they were also particularly appropriate as I try to be healthier in the New Year. I know it's the oldest resolution in the book (and the most often broken, I'm sure), but I must do something about these 10 lbs sitting on my middle before I even think about having another baby, and if New Year's resolution helps me, then so be it.

I taped these little bits of paper onto a magnetic notepad on our refrigerator, and I hope seeing them each day will help me to remember these wise words (and serve as a self fulfilling prophecy in the case of the major purchase!).

Happy New Year!




Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Pumpkin Bread

I don't really like pumpkin, or any other kind of squash for that matter. I'll eat it, but I just don't get jazzed about it. A few years ago, though, I was in the mood for something that tasted like "fall," and I stumbled upon Sara Foster's recipe for Pumpkin Bread.

And I love it. It's moist, spicy, yummy...tastes like fall!

Though the recipe calls for canned pumpkin, I used to always roast a fresh pumpkin for the bread. Now that I don't have time for such craziness, I just follow the recipe as it, and you know what? I can't tell the difference.

I took some to Love bug's preschool today - hope they enjoyed it. Here's a link to the recipe so you can, too. http://tinyurl.com/yanqy8b